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"A lotta you children have been sending
me cards and letters. Well, don't bother writing, I don't
have time to read them."
-Roddy Piper, showing the charm that made him a professional
wrestling bad guy.
I used to be a big wrestling fan. I wrote about wrestling,
got to know several wrestlers and went to many of the matches.
I was in the front row for the famous match in the mid 1980's
when wrestler Jerry Lawler dropped comedian Andy Kaufman on
his head.
I was rooting for Kaufman. I liked to root for the bad men
as it was a rebellious thing to do and I knew that wrestling
was not for real. Since many people in the audience did not
know that wrestling was fake and liked the good guys, I usually
was lucky to escape with my life.
I think rooting for bad guy wrestlers helps me to understand
why people watch reality shows. I don't watch them but see
the commercials. I can't avoid commercials for the show with
Donald Trump as they replay it on CNBC, a station that I watch
every day.
People seem to get off on watching Trump tell people, "You're
fired." Trump fits the stereotype of what some people
think a hard charging businessman should be like.
I've been a boss for a long time. I've fired a number of
people and it is really painful. People are fired because
they are not doing the job correctly or management made a
mistake in hiring too many people at the wrong time. It should
be hard on the person doing the firing as it reflects bad
planning or bad execution on someone's part.
Firing should be a time of reflection and a chance to explore
what went wrong. Trump teaches television viewers that firing
someone is a macho thing you do to make people think you are
a strong leader.
Because Trump is famous, good looking and has lots of charisma,
I am sure that some viewers look at him and see good qualities
instead of thinking that he acts like a spoiled child.
Being spoiled is something that comes easy to Trump. He grew
up the son of a millionaire and used his daddy's money to
get started. He got his reputation as a business leader by
buying buildings and putting his name all over them. He is
a master at using publicity. He may not be the richest or
most successful businessman in America but he is definitely
the most famous.
I think people root for him for the same reasons that I used
to root for the bad guy in wrestling. It is fun to root for
a guy who seems to go against the grain. He represents the
values of greed and an America gone wrong but he does not
shy away or apologize for his actions.
The late John Savage, a Toledo life insurance agent, did
a lecture that compared Donald Trump to Mother Theresa. Trump
had nothing that she wanted and she had nothing that Trump
wanted. Their value systems were totally different.
I don't think Mother Theresa ever got in someone's face and
said, "You're fired".
There has been a move to have Mother Theresa canonized as
a saint. I suspect there will not be that same push for sainthood
when Donald Trump dies.
I hate to pick on Trump as I would probably like him if I
ever met him. We have the same first name, we both handle
money and we both have been to wrestling matches. His favorite
wrestler is the Million Dollar Man, Ted Dibose, and I suspect
that Trump probably roots for the bad guy too.
Since Trump loves publicity so much, when his reality show
goes off the air, I can see him going the route of the late
Andy Kaufman and starting to act like a bad man wrestler.
I can see him running around insulting people and spewing
stereotypes like Kaufman did.
If that happens, we may be able to get Jerry Lawler to challenge
Trump to a wrestling match and see if Lawler can use the same
move on Trump that he did on Andy Kaufman.
Lawler dropped Kaufman on his head and put him in the hospital.
If Lawler tried the same thing on Trump, this time I would
be rooting for Lawler.
Don McNay is President of McNay Settlement Group where no
one has ever been fired in public. He can be reached at
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