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I can just
see me on a tropical island
Riding the surf and drinking coconut
wine
Chasing the sun through an innocent land
Leaving the straight life
behind
-Bobby Goldsboro
The E! television
network has been running a show called Curse of the Lottery. It features lottery winner turned lottery
loser, Jack Whitaker.
Jack is the guy in
West Virginia
who won the biggest Powerball jackpot in history. Jack has also been the poster
child of how to screw up your life.
Death, destruction, and chaos follow wherever Jack goes.
His soon-to-be ex-wife
wishes he had torn up the winning ticket. In Jack’s case, it would have been a
good idea.
I don’t play the lottery
and encourage everyone to do the same, but I know many people always do
it. That
reality is reinforced every time I stop in a convenience store. I would like
stores with lottery lines and non-lottery lines. I wonder if I would be the only
person in the non-lottery category.
I feel sorry for the
people who hang around stores blowing their money on lottery tickets. Especially those who play scratch-off
games. There is an allure to scratch-off
games that totally escapes me.
I can see spending a
buck on the chance to win $300 million. I don’t understand spending that same
buck on a scratch-off game. I have watched a lot of people win a few
dollars with scratch-offs and then turn
around and buy more until they blow it all.
Scratch-offs are not a
form of gambling; they are a form of boredom killing.
Many lottery players are
like the man in the Bobby Goldsboro song. They want to escape from where they
are. It is the same reason that people do drugs, drink, and have other issues.
They are looking for a way out of their current lives.
They hope the lottery
will solve their problems. They think things will be better on a tropical
island.
If tropical islands were
perfect, everyone would live there. Professional beachcombing may not be all it is
made out to be.
Unlike what the title of
the E! television show implies, winning the lottery is not like the curse of
King Tut’s tomb. It is just that people
do not handle the change in lifestyle well.
Many lottery players are
people with issues. They want to be rid
of problems, and hope that the lottery is the answer. Although it doesn’t
happen often, occasionally one of those unhappy people win.
Once they win, they
expect their problems to be gone. They won’t be. Money will cause those problems to multiply.
Most people have
boundaries, and money is one of the biggest. People don’t take 50 of their
closest “friends” to Las
Vegas since they can’t afford to.
Lottery winners can
suddenly afford to do stupid things--and they do so until the money runs out.
The friends go at about the same time.
Jack is a classic
example of where money met bad habits. Blowing thousands in strip clubs,
indulging his granddaughter, and his generally obnoxious behavior could not have
happened without unlimited money
It was not a curse. It
was a guy with no control. The money did not create the Jack’s bad habits; it
let him practice them without boundaries.
If Jack had spent some
money on some good psychological help, he might have kept more money and had a
better quality of life. It certainly couldn’t have hurt. His “strip club and casino therapy” was
expensive and did not pay off.
I have heard that 90% of
people who win the lottery run through the money in five years. A lot of people
are doing things wrong.
They don’t look at the
winnings as a chance to provide security, give back to the world, or take care
of their family.
They look at the money
as a way to leave the straight life behind.
As long as they see
money as a way to fix their other problems, they are never going to have it
long.
That is not a curse. It
is just the way the world works.
Don
McNay is the author of The Unbridled World of Ernie Fletcher,
and you can meet him at a book signing and author presentation on Monday October
9, 7 pm at Joseph-Beth Booksellers in Lexington, Ky.
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